Its more like "we" are the good sibling who has to suffer because the other sibling has done something bad. I HATED when I got looped in like that when I was innocent,lol.
Right now, when I'm calm, I can say that I am working for Him and not for them. I do a good job, I love the kids, they love me, and I do see progress.
Do I have room for improvement? Of course. But they wouldn't know those areas if they hit them in the face.I see you for ONE day because you have an assignment to complete and then you judge me off of that and anything else you should've seen but didn't is a penalty.